A couple of years ago at an aftercare
session, Senior Trainer, Natasha O’Brien asked Jean if she had thought about
what would happen when Tammy retired. Jean admits is was a shock. “I felt
devastated. You just don’t think about it. You always expect your dog to be
there. You don’t think about them getting older and not being there.”
Instead Jean continued to work with Tammy work every day and pass their
annual assessments. Until the moment finally arrived last January when Rita
Howson (Head of Training) rang to say the charity had found a dog that they
thought would be ideal for Jean. Although it was still a shock, Jean had
become more open to idea of a new dog.
“ I began to realize that Tammy was becoming more and more content to
rest and work was getting less attractive to her as it does to us all as we
get older!. It was nevertheless very important to me that I could keep Tammy
as a family pet and that any new dog would accept Tammy and vice versa.”
That new dog turned out to be Sasha a gorgeous black Labrador who had
been raised with an older dominant dog so the trainers felt she would fit in
with Tammy. The pair met up for the first time and the National Training
Centre later that month but not alone.
Jean explains, “ I brought Tammy, my daughter Jolene and grandchildren
Grace and Madison along to meet Sasha. Family life is very important to me
and I needed to know that Sasha would fit in with my family and not just me.
I was nervous about how Tammy would react but the two of them hit it off
straight away although Sasha certainly knew who was the boss!”
Jean confesses that she didn’t have any strong feeling towards Sasha at
that time but knew she had to have a second dog if she was to keep her
independence.
After Sasha’s initial short socialization in foster care and further
meetings, Jean along with grand daughter Sadie finally took Sasha home to
Blackburn to continue socialization and start developing a closer bond.
“The great thing about training your second dog,” comments Jean, “Is that
you don’t have to have the dog away in training for quite as long as you
already know how to continue to develop their skills. The hardest part was
having to leave Tammy at home as you should only work one dog at any time.
Although Tammy didn’t seem to mind , it still felt very strange not to have
her there.”
There were other difficulties too. “The emotional side of the second dog
training is hard and it is time consuming as have two dogs to look after
training one whilst working with the other,” Jean explains. “But it is worth
it to maintain your independence. Personally I prefer dog carers to human
carers because they don’t ask what you need something for, they just do it!
But you do end up with a jealous husband !!
Sasha finally qualified and received her jacket in August to the delight
of Jean and her family. “I not only have a great dog to help me with lots of
every day tasks, but Tammy is going to become a fundraising dog. She just
loves all the attention and will sit all day and soak up the adulation!”
Her advice to anyone who may be faced with the same decision to make
about having a second dog is simple; “Listen to the trainers advice about
your dog. Don’t pick one just because it’s cute. Be open minded as your
second dog needs to suit both you, your family and your first dog. It’s hard
work but it’s worth it as you cannot quantify or qualify, the support these
dogs give.”